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Saturday, November 18, 2006

Wishes

i wish i belong to anyone
i wish i never be hate by other
i wish i can understand wat they want
i wish i can make a friend to all ppl
i wish i can have a big loving family
i wish i can be wat u want me to do
if i think all of the thing, it made me feel what i've done wrong to them
i didnt mention to did it or anything

it just i want to be loved, loved by someone who supposed to support and give the encouragement,
am i wrong to ask for support
even though i have the blood connection, but u never think that i'm the one of urs

I have tried
tried so hard to be loved just by u
but everything i'd done, just make me feel sad and give up

am i wrong
am i really a bad girl
or am i not even ur family
i'm wondering now
wat should i do

i dun know
just let me believe that someday
u'll said to me
I love u


Monday, October 30, 2006

Hiaaaa!!! Da lama ga post blogs. Pas mo tulis blog malah lg sakit mana da minggu2 terakhir submission lg.Haizz..
Lg pengen ngobrol tp ga ada yg bs diajak ngobrol:( Udah akh mo bobo dulu,sakit neh...
Animasikuuuu...Essaykuu...Ooohhh....


Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Guide book for Guys

Written by a guy. After years of experience. This shoud be written as a guidebook for guys everywhere!

1. Whatever you do, don't just show up at their house...they run around in their underwear just like we do.

2. Don't cheat on them. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.

3. Beware of every single male relatives and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your butt at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful.

5. Don't refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it's because they're jealous.

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.

7. Don't be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they're going out with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms.

8. If you don't sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.

--8.5. If you DO sleep with them, don't tell your friends that you did.

9. You can be dirty minded in private, really...most of them are not offended by it...

10. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales.

11. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a pussy.

--11.5. Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time!

12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it's not a serious relationship.

13. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely.

14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick the crap out of him.

15. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.

16. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.

17. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.

18. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.

19. Don't flirt with their moms or friends...that's just freaky.

20. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like crap, so be understanding.

21. If you don't like the way they drive, you do it.

22. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend.

23. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.

25. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.

26. Memorize their birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life.

27. Don't marinade the cologne.

28. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. (if you choose to get jewelry get something simple becuase unless shes a really flashy person you could be runny a risk if you get colored stuff or something really huge!)

29. If you think the relationship isn't going to last, don't wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.

30. After you've been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.

31.Don't ever do anything wrong (well not anything). girls remember things for life and anything you did wrong will be used against you in the future.

It's not my blog........I just felt that I should post this one up....I got this from my friend's blog
sooooooo yeah if you guys agree or disagree, just comment on it and if you have more "guideline" to put on there feel free to post it and share with us hahahahaha
But for me as a girl and a girlfriend, i'm agree with this guide book.Hehe...


Wednesday, July 26, 2006

Makin aku Cinta by Anang en Krisdayanti

caramu mencintaiku
menjauhkan kecurangan
seperti bintang yang setia pada bulan
memegang kukuh janji
menemani aku sampai mati
terpasung hati
tulusmu mendampingi diriku
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu
meredam rasa keakuanku
memahami cinta
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu
meredam rasa keakuanku
mengerti, memahami cinta

caramu memanjakanku
kaurujuki kesejukan pagi
kau memasung hati
tulus aku memasrahkan diri
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu
meredam rasa keakuanku
memahami cinta
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu
meredam rasa keakuanku
mengerti, memahami cinta

jangan pernah terbersit hati
meragukan kesetiaan yang tercurah
aku dan dirimu ditakdirkan satu
langit jadi saksi
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu
meredam rasa keakuanku
memahami cinta
makin aku cinta
cermin sikapmu yang mampu meredam rasa keakuanku
mengerti, memahami cinta


*So sweet this old song,hopefully the kind of this love happen in my life:)


Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Cantik...

Cantik…

Apa itu cantik??

Mirror mirror on the wall tell me who the beautiful woman in the world?

 

Inget kata2 itu? Dari kisah Snow White yg dimana punya ibu tiri yg maunya jd org yg tercantik di dunia. Sejak kita kecil hidup kita dipengaruhi oleh media. Dr animasi Snow White aja kita diajar ato secara ga langsung dikenalkan yg namanya cantik. Cantik di sini adalah cantik scr fisik. And berlangsung ampe skarang setiap perempuan mau menjadi yg cantik apalagi ketika lawan jenis melihat.Hahaha…

 

Tp balik lg sebenernya istilah cantik itu apa seh. Bagi gw cantik itu adalah suatu ukuran yg digunakan untuk menilai keindahan fisik yg dimiliki oleh seseorang. Tp nilai dr keindahaan fisik sendiri itu kan sebenernya realtif bagi setiap org. Cuman skarang kita ini da di brain wash istilahnya yah sama media. Apa yg media hidangkan di tv ato iklan slalu cw yg langsing, mata besar, seksi, bibir yg penuh en bla2… Sehingga secara ga langsung kita sendiri menilai kecantikan seseorang dr apa yg media sajikan. Bukan lg dr apa yg menurut kita indah atau cantik.

 

Gw lg pengen ngebahas ttg cantik ini since my lecturer td dtg en ngomong2 ttg cantik. Krn animasi kita themenya beauty in Media. Tp sebenernya gw jd mikir cantik yah… Setiap cw pasti mau dilahirkan jadi cantik. Balik lg cantik terutama ketika menghadapi lawan jenis. Apalagi yg kita sukai. Namun kadang kenyataan pahit yg ternyata kita ga punya kecantikan itu scr fisik en bikin kita jd minder.

 

Gw pengen share aja… Contohnya gw. Sewaktu SD, krn ada masalah jd en mental yg masi labil ampe SMP. Gw merasa nda pede dgn adanya diri gw. Alhasil wkt itu gw adalah seseorang yg pendiem, pemalu, tertutup even kl da kenal emg bawel. Kl diliat scr fisik aduhhh… Pasti pada kaget ga kenal. Krn dulu gw ibaratnya film Betty Lafea atau animasi Ugly Duckling atau yg kita kenal dgn Si Itik yg Buruk Rupa. Gw punya banyak temen tp gw ngerasa gw nda secantik mrk en kayanya ga ada d cowo yg naksir gw. Tp gw ngerasa pengen bgt jd cantik, bs dikenal org, populer, and hal2 lain yg bikin kita jd disenengin org krn cantik.

 

Singkat cerita ketika gw da stabil en my mom encourage gw tuk lbh mengatur diri. Dr gw yg mulai sadar makan yg lbh normal, ngelurusin rambut en mengganti kacamata. En akhirnya gw jd kurus en istilahnya lbh cantik dr dulu. Alhamdulilah(hehe) pd blg gw jd cantik. Dan cowo2 banyak yg ngejer, banyak yg suka. Tp gw ngerasa stuck. Krn gw tau setiap cowo yg melihat gw, gw merasa mrk cuman ngeliat scr fisik. Soalnya ketika masi lom berubah mrk ga ada apa2 en kayanya ga mungkin mau sama gw.

 

Spt td lecturer gw blg, org yg cantik pengen jd jelek krn ga mau dijudge org lain cuman dr apa yg mrk liat. Tetapi ketika org cantik itu bener2 jd jelek, mrk bkl nangis, bakal ga trima dgn keadaan itu. Skarang gw da bs berubah…Berubah cara pikir ketika menghadapi org2 yg cuman melihat secara fisik. Krn kita ga bs menghindari org2 en pemikiran2 org yg ada since pemikiran setiap org banyak yg terinfluence ma media en pengaruh dr luar.

Just treasure wat u have, whatever the look u have…Krn beauty ga cuman dr penampilan. Buat apa cantik kl mental bombrok, buat apa cantik kl sombong, and buat apa cantik kalo bodoh en stuff. Krn seseorang yg bener2 teman, benar2 dewasa bs menilai seseorang dr sudut yg luas. Ga cuman dr sudut sempit aja. Yg unik en uda jarang adalah menjadi cantik dalam baru cantik keluar. Krn kl cantik dr dalam pasti keluarnya indah.

 

It’s not hard to be a beautiful person, just try to be a better person each day and u’ll be a beautiful person….



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